Tuesday, November 11, 2008

My LOVE-HATE Relationship with Craigslist
















I first discovered www.craigslist.org during my job search after college. Around this time, Craigslist was only available in 14 U.S. cities. The site was still in its infancy, but I knew that it would expand exponentially with a blink of an eye. The network of online communities was the perfect venue for FREE online classified ads.

It didn't take much to make me an instant Craigslist ambassador! I continued to share the Web site to my friends, family, colleagues, and even perfect strangers that I thought could benefit from learning about such a wonderful online community. The simplicity and ease of navigation appealed to me. I conducted job searches on Monster, CareerBuilder, local newspapers and readers (something I would NEVER even think of doing today), visited career centers, and blindly applied on company Web sites. What was I thinking? Believe it or not, I found my FIRST job out of college from Craigslist, a central network of online communities! Welcome to Web 2.0!

Ever since then, I've used Craigslist to hire transcribers and freelance writers, sell and buy furniture, and find roommates and apartments.

Unfortunately, my experiences have not always been positive. Introducing my youngest brother to Craigslist resulted in him being scammed out of $3,000. It was devastating to witness my brother lose his hard earned money to an online predator preying on naive kids that were simply too trustworthy.

Here's the skinny: My brother wanted to sell his Playstation for $300 to save money for a trip. The buyer "mistakenly" sent him a money order in the amount of $3,300, and told him he could cash the money order at his bank (Union Bank). Once my brother received the $3,000 from his bank, he sent the remaining amount ($3,000) via Western Union. I know, I know, most of you are thinking...what an idiot!!! Hey, what can I say? People fall for these scams ALL THE TIME. Learn more about scams on Craigslist here. Scam artists are relentless and come up with new, innovative ways to take advantage of innocent consumers. Don't be their next victim!

So if you decide to use Craigslist and you receive an email that mentions a money wiring service, don't even think twice - DELETE, DELETE, DELETE!

Rule of thumb: If it's too good to be true, it probably is.

I LOVE the Internet and can't imagine my life without it! However, we have to remember that the Internet also leaves the door wide open for con artists and bad guys to commit fraud. Check out this site for more information on how people have been scammed on the Internet.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Barack Obama's Acceptance Speech

Barack Obama's Speech in full (Tuesday, November 4th, 2008) - provided by http://www.guardian.co.uk

If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible; who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time; who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer.

It's the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen; by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the very first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different; that their voice could be that difference.

It's the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Latino, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled – Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been a collection of Red States and Blue States: we are, and always will be, the United States of America.

It's the answer that led those who have been told for so long by so many to be cynical, and fearful, and doubtful of what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day.

It's been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this day, in this election, at this defining moment, change has come to America.

I just received a very gracious call from Senator McCain. He fought long and hard in this campaign, and he's fought even longer and harder for the country he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine, and we are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him and Governor Palin for all they have achieved, and I look forward to working with them to renew this nation's promise in the months ahead.

I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on that train home to Delaware, the Vice President-elect of the United States, Joe Biden.

I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last sixteen years, the rock of our family and the love of my life, our nation's next First Lady, Michelle Obama. Sasha and Malia, I love you both so much, and you have earned the new puppy that's coming with us to the White House. And while she's no longer with us, I know my grandmother is watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight, and know that my debt to them is beyond measure.

To my campaign manager David Plouffe, my chief strategist David Axelrod, and the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics – you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you've sacrificed to get it done.

But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to – it belongs to you.

I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn't start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington – it began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston.

It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give five dollars and ten dollars and twenty dollars to this cause. It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation's apathy; who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep; from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on the doors of perfect strangers; from the millions of Americans who volunteered, and organized, and proved that more than two centuries later, a government of the people, by the people and for the people has not perished from this Earth. This is your victory.

I know you didn't do this just to win an election and I know you didn't do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime – two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century. Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us. There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after their children fall asleep and wonder how they'll make the mortgage, or pay their doctor's bills, or save enough for college. There is new energy to harness and new jobs to be created; new schools to build and threats to meet and alliances to repair.

The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even one term, but America – I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you – we as a people will get there.

There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won't agree with every decision or policy I make as President, and we know that government can't solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And above all, I will ask you join in the work of remaking this nation the only way it's been done in America for two-hundred and twenty-one years – block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand.

What began twenty-one months ago in the depths of winter must not end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you.

So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves, but each other. Let us remember that if this financial crisis taught us anything, it's that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers – in this country, we rise or fall as one nation; as one people.

Let us resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let us remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House – a party founded on the values of self-reliance, individual liberty, and national unity. Those are values we all share, and while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, "We are not enemies, but friends…though passion may have strained it must not break our bonds of affection." And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn – I may not have won your vote, but I hear your voices, I need your help, and I will be your President too.

And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of our world – our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand. To those who would tear this world down – we will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security – we support you. And to all those who have wondered if America's beacon still burns as bright – tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from our the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity, and unyielding hope.

For that is the true genius of America – that America can change. Our union can be perfected. And what we have already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow.

This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that's on my mind tonight is about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She's a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing – Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old.

She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn't vote for two reasons – because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin.

And tonight, I think about all that she's seen throughout her century in America – the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can't, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can.

At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can.

When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs and a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can.

When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can.

She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that "We Shall Overcome." Yes we can.

A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can.

America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves – if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made?

This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time – to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American Dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth – that out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope, and where we are met with cynicism, and doubt, and those who tell us that we can't, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people:

Yes We Can. Thank you, God bless you, and may God Bless the United States of America.

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Farewell Six Flags


Phipps and I spent Sunday at Six Flags in an effort to preserve our youth. We woke up early, dressed in warm clothes, grabbed bagels and OJ, and were on our way. After a few rides, fatigue hit us and we started to feel...OLD! We were in pain everywhere from head to toe and were eager to sit down at any opportunity. The chitter-chatter from teenagers irritated us and the thought of standing in line for another two hours was no longer fun. We came to the conclusion that we simply outgrew our beloved Six Flags.


(We were exhausted and needed to take naps)

Six Flags has always brought back fond childhood memories for me --- nostalgia at its best. Growing up as the eldest child with three siblings (all brothers) and traditional Chinese parents was definitely no walk in the park. My brothers and I were expected to help with the family business as soon as we were tall enough to reach over the counter to hand customers their change. And since girls develop quicker than boys, you can only guess who spent most of their childhood helping mom and dad at the shop. That's right, it was none other than yours truly. So when my school planned field trips to Six Flags, it was something I always looked forward to --- no school, no annoying brothers, and no work!

I loved every moment. Staying up the night before contemplating which outfit I would wear and who I would sit with on the bus. Sneaking a can of Coke into my lunch bag when my parents weren't looking. Secretly asking my father for a few dollars for "emergencies," e.g. ice cream, churros, funnel cake, etc. Asking my mother for money would only elicit unnecessary dissertations about how money doesn't grow on trees, blah, blah, blah. Oh, how I envied my peers with parents who handed them a twenty dollar bill to buy lunch and snacks!

After arriving at the theme park, we separated into groups and were off on our own for seven hours! We decided which rides we wanted to go on, when we would stop for lunch, where we wanted to eat, and when we would stop for bathroom breaks --- absolute autonomy! It was my first taste of independence and I immediately became addicted.

All these years I thought I enjoyed Six Flags for the thrills and rides, but in reality that's only part of the reason why it brought back so many fond memories. Six Flags represented freedom. Freedom from my parents, my family obligations, my life at home. Don't get me wrong, I admit to being an adrenaline junkie and I love that empty stomach feeling when plunging down a steep drop on a roller coaster, but looking back at it now, the rides were just the surface because it goes so much deeper than that.

I realized that I never left Six Flags that day, but perhaps it's time to say farewell as I enter a new phase in my life --- a phase that embraces a lifelong partnership with someone who wants to explore a new theme park with rides that have never been ridden before.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

Barack Obama Sail in Battery Park (New York)


During my pathetic attempt to put in a long run before running the NYC marathon in 14 days and 11 hours, the image of McCain's face on a sailboat lurking along Battery Park forced me to stop. I couldn't believe my eyes. How could anyone get away with this? I decided to take a photo of it on my cell, but by the time I had my phone ready to snap a shot, the sailboat did a 180 degree turn and Obama's face appeared! In only a matter of moments a crowd burst with cameras in hand snapping photos left and right...now that's more like it!

Make sure to check out Politico's Swing State Map featuring the most recent polling average in the most competitive states.

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Holiday Inn Express Commercial - White Men CAN Rap!

I saw this Holiday Inn commercial the other day and just knew someone would surely post it on YouTube (found it in less than ten seconds). The commercial made me laugh, but better yet, I actually wanted to know which company came up with this funny commercial --- ahhhh...Holiday Inn Express! Well done - congratulations!



Lyrics courtesy of Sylko007:

Hold on to my clean shirts
And please dont get em dirty
'Cuz I know you're gonna drool
When you hear me getting wordy
'Cuz im a walkin, talkin, smackin human encyclopedia,
You thought I'd stop there?
But now I'm gettin greedier.
I'm a promotion in motion and find out you got the notion
That I got strategic plans comin out my ears,
My key points and decks will bring y'all to tears,
Turnin pennies into dimes
I shift paradigms
Now how you gonna let a marketing rep
rip your rep and slip adept rhyme schemes in
that your mind only dreams in
I bet you're all wondering why my rhyme is so tight...
I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.

Adam Carolla LIVE Broadcast at Roosevelt Hotel

While in California, Juan told me and Nick about a LIVE 97.1 FM Broadcast featuring Adam Carolla so we decided to tag along for the mini road trip to LA from SD while listening to podcasts from Juan's favorite stand-up comedian, Mitch Hedberg. (Note: buy Juan a GPS system for Christmas; we got lost and ended up calling friends to mapquest directions while we were on the 405N)

Ahhh...this was a great event for my beau Nick, especially since it was his FIRST time in Los Angeles! I'm sure this was exactly how he imagined a "Hollywood" event; hot blonds (some wore nothing but body paint), celebrities such as Danny Bonaduce from the Partidge Family, former 'N Sync boyband singer Lance Bass, and David Alan Grier, comedian best known for his work on the sketch comedy, In Living Color (Remember "two snaps up!" and "Homey don't play that"?), free promotional cocktails courtesy of Hornitos, and there were even MERMAIDS swimming in the Roosevelt Hotel pool!

Of course we walked down Hollywood Blvd. after the event for some grub. It was a tre fun night!

Saturday, October 11, 2008

One Couple = Three Weddings



Congratulations to Vu and Monica! These two lovebirds were recently hitched, not once or twice, but THREE times! It wasn't enough to say "I do" in Mexico, so they did it again in San Diego, and then again in Vancouver!

I've known Vu and his family since the early 80s. I have some funny childhood photos of us filed away in a family album somewhere at my parents' home collecting dust...ahhh the good old days! After my family moved to Chula Vista in the 90s, we lost touch during most of our adoloscence, but we reconnected in college and kept in touch since. Thanks to email and MSN messenger, staying in touch was pretty much effortless.

When Vu told me that he had found THE ONE only after dating Monica for three months, I knew he was serious. I never thought of Vu as the "impulsive type," so when he told me he was head over heels for Monica, I knew he had found HER, the woman he would spend the rest of his life with happily ever after.

Words can't really explain how Vu knew Monica was the love of his life, but when he talked about her, you could just sense the sincerity and authenticity of his love for her. Read about how he proposed to Monica here.

Some people believe couples should date for at least a year or two before getting hitched, but can you really put a time schedule on love? I don't think so.

So why the three weddings? She's from Canada, he's from San Diego, and what if the couple wants a destination wedding? How do you decide on the wedding location? Why not have it all and plan three weddings? Talk about over-the-top, but you know what? They pulled it off and made it all look so easy.

Nick and I were honored to attend their special celebration in Mexico.



















It was the first time Nick and I attended a beach wedding, and we both didn't know what was appropriate to wear. So if you are ever invited to a beach wedding, here are some tips for appropriate beach wedding attire for guests:

* Do wear khaki or linen pants.
* Do wear sun dresses.
* Do wear sandals/flip flops or shoes with smaller heels. It's difficult to walk on sand with 3-inch heels!
* Do wear sunglasses to protect your eyes.
* Do not wear t-shirts. Wear a button-down shirt.
* Do not wear shorts. Although one or two people will show up in shorts, do YOU want to be that person?
* Remember to bring sunblock. You can be stuck in the sun for a long time before the bride walks down the aisle, so protect yourself!



I have to admit, I felt a little uncomfortable wearing my dress with sandals, so next time I'll wear a long flowy dress that covers my feet entirely.

Here are some cool beach wedding ideas to note:

As we approached the wedding setup on the beach, they handed out these cool sun umbrellas!



It was HOT, HOT, HOT! Everyone was sweating profusely and fanning themselves with the program, so the resort staff handed out refreshing, cold bottles of water to guests. GREAT IDEA!

The entire ceremony was HEARD. Thanks to the use of a microphone, guests were able to hear every poem, speech and vow -- loud and clear!